Play It By Your Rules

E31 - PIBYR: Burn the Job Description - Build a Life That Fits

What if career success didn’t mean climbing higher - but choosing how you spend your time?
In this episode of Play It by Your Rules, I sit down with Ani Filipova - former Citi COO turned portfolio career strategist - to unpack what it really means to step off the traditional career ladder and design a working life that fits your priorities.
Ani shares how she intentionally moved away from a single, full-time corporate role - not to work less, but to work differently: with more autonomy, flexibility, and control over where her time and energy go. For her, a portfolio career isn’t about chaos or juggling - it’s about choice.
We explore what portfolio careers look like in practice, who they’re for, and why they’re becoming a powerful alternative for experienced professionals who want freedom without starting from scratch.
We covered:
Why portfolio careers unlock freedom - especially around how, when, and with whom you work
What Ani carried from corporate into her portfolio - and what she consciously left behind
How she defines a portfolio career (and why it’s not just for entrepreneurs)
Fractional work: what it is - and why it’s still emerging in places like Switzerland
The mindset shift from “one role” to “multiple value streams”
Why experimenting before quitting is smarter than making a clean break
Practical Takeaways:
Audit how you  spend your time - freedom starts with awareness
Run small experiments (projects, advisory roles, fractional work) before committing
Design your portfolio around energy and values, not just income streams
This episode is for anyone who feels successful on paper - but constrained in real life - and wants more freedom over their time without burning everything down.
Explore More:
🔗 Follow Ani on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anifilipova/
🌱 Change Is Possible Community: https://changeispossible.co.uk/
🚀 Portfolio Career Accelerator: https://simplebooklet.com/portfolio_career_accelerator#page=1
🎧 Listen to Ani’s podcast: Change Is Possible Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@ChangeIsPossiblePodcast
Your life. Your rules. For more freedom, flow, and fun.

E30 - PIBYR: Stop Hoping for Teamwork - Start Building It by Design

Teamwork doesn’t magically happen just because people share a Zoom link.
In this episode, I talk with Daria Rudnik - Team Architect, Executive Coach, and author of CLICKING: A Team Building Strategy for Overloaded Leaders Who Want Stronger Team Trust, Better Results, and More Time - about why so many teams underperform, especially under pressure… and how to design teams that work.
Because just like people, teams need to play by their own rules - and it’s a leader’s job to help them define what that looks like.
Daria breaks down the 5 essential pillars that make teams click (spoiler: most leaders skip 3 of them), how to balance autonomy and alignment, and how to avoid the biggest trap of servant leadership.
We also dig into AI’s impact on collaboration - and what happens when teams offload too much to tech.
We covered:
Why teams don’t “just happen” - and need intentional architecture
The 5 pillars of team design: purpose, connection, integration, decision-making, and knowledge flow
What to do when you inherit a messy team
Why clarity is your secret weapon - at all levels
The hidden risks of servant leadership (and how to empower without isolating)
How to stay human in the age of AI - and keep your brain on
Practical Takeaways:
Start with conversation: co-create team norms and decisions together
Bring clarity to your rules, roles, and routines
Use AI as a partner - not a crutch. Your brain needs to stay engaged.
This episode is for every leader who wants to build strong, self-led teams — and give them the clarity and confidence to fly.
🔗 Explore more:📘 Daria’s book CLICKING: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FN4S6P37🌐 dariarudnik.com💼 Connect on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/dariarudnik
Your life. Your rules. For more freedom, flow, and fun.

E29 - PIBYR: Why Your Habits Don’t Stick - and What to Do Instead

It’s that time again - fresh goals, new intentions, big dreams.But let’s be honest: most resolutions don’t make it past February.
So… why don’t our habits stick?And more importantly - what actually works?
In this episode, I sit down with Ivan Palomino - behavioral science strategist and unapologetic habit hacker — to unpack the science behind human behavior and habit change.Spoiler: it’s not about motivation. It’s about design.
Ivan blends neuroscience, psychology, and real-life experimentation (including his own burnout and career reinvention) to help you create lasting change — with way less effort than you think.
We covered:
Why we operate on autopilot 90% of the time — and how to use that to your advantage
The 4 brain rules that shape your decisions (emotion, effort, illusion, and reward)
How to build habits by stacking them on existing routines
The difference between rituals, motivation, and capacity
Why your willpower was never the problem
Tiny habits that lead to massive ripple effects
✨ Practical Takeaways:
Pick ONE habit — do it daily for 30 days before adding more
Use immediate rewards and low-effort design to reduce friction
Track progress in ways that create satisfaction (not stress)
This episode is for anyone tired of failing at New Year’s goals — and ready to build change that lasts.
Your life. Your rules. For more freedom, flow, and fun.
Links:🔗 Connect with Ivan on LinkedIn🌐 Learn more at ivanpalomino.net▶️ Watch more on YouTube – Growth Hacking Culture📬 Subscribe to Ivan’s Newsletter on LinkedIn

E28 - PIBYR: Forget the Pitch - Start with Value & Listening: Job Hunting Meets Sales

What if selling yourself didn’t feel fake, forced, or awkward - but natural, connecting on a human level, like meeting a new friend or dating?
In this episode, I sit down with Curt Tueffert, award-winning sales expert, keynote speaker, professor, and “Selling Skills Sherpa” to explore how anyone (yes, including purpose-driven professionals, introverts, and impact seekers) can confidently bring sales strategies into their job search without compromising authenticity.
With 40+ years of real-world experience, Curt shares how job seekers can borrow from the best sales teams starting not with a pitch, but with curiosity, listening, and value.We also dig into the art and science of selling and how to apply both to your career conversations.
We covered:
Why the best salespeople - and job candidates - start with listening
ABC redefined: Always Be Curious
The IMPACT formula for sales success and how to apply it to interviews
Why you must believe in your value before others will
The underrated power of “driving trial” and how pro bono work can open doors
How to speak to problems, not just profiles and make people want to know more
✨ Practical Takeaways:
Start by listening - curiosity builds connection and trust
Know your value inside-out, it’s the foundation of all confident communication
Offer a “test drive” whether it’s a short project, workshop, or bold idea
This episode is for anyone ready to finally have fun selling — your skills, your story, your value.
How to get started?Curt suggests drafting 8 curiosity questions to use when meeting new people - 2 each under the acronym FORM:🟢 Family🟦 Occupation🟣 Recreation🟠 Motivation
Your life. Your rules. For more freedom, flow, and fun.
Links:🔗 Learn more about Curt and his work📘 5 Stones for Slaying Giants and other resources at PeakSalesStrategy.com

E27 - PIBYR: How to Stand Out Without Shouting: Value Whispering for Introverts (and Everyone Else Who Hates Self-Promotion)

What if showing your value didn’t require shouting, hustling, or pretending to be louder than you are?
In this episode of Play It by Your Rules, I sit down with Melitta Campbell - award-winning business coach, TEDx speaker, bestselling author, and the creator of “Value Whispering.”
Melitta teaches a simple and refreshing truth: You don’t need to be louder. You need to be clearer.
And while her approach resonates deeply with introverts, it’s not just for them.If you’ve ever felt awkward talking about yourself, overwhelmed by visibility advice, or turned off by noisy marketing… this conversation will feel like a breath of fresh air.
We dive into:
What Value Whispering is - and why it works better than self-promotion
The real visibility challenges introverts face (hint: it’s not shyness)
Why many “visibility hacks” backfire for thoughtful leaders and entrepreneurs
How to communicate your value without overexplaining or overselling
Melitta’s 3 pillars of quiet confidence
How to build a business - or career - that fits your voice, not someone else’s blueprint
✨ Practical takeaways you can try today:
1️⃣ Name your “why now.” What is the deeper reason behind your work that naturally draws people in?2️⃣ Craft your one-sentence value whisper. Clear. Honest. No hype.3️⃣ Pick one visibility habit that feels energizing - and do it for one week. 
This episode is for anyone who wants to be seen and heard without burning out, pretending, or shouting over the noise.
A quiet confidence approach — for more freedom, flow, and fun.
🔗 Explore Melitta’s work:
Download the first chapter of her new book:http://www.melittacampbell.com/chapter
Website: www.melittacampbell.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/Melitta

E26 - PIBYR: Remove the Silencer: From Introvert to Impact Speaker

What if your biggest transformation starts with just 90 seconds of courage?
This episode unpacks how impromptu speaking can help you rewrite not just your script - but your identity.
Tara Gopal Chattopadhyay is a Distinguished Toastmaster, global tech leader, and culture-shifting communicator - and President of the Impact Toastmasters Club in Geneva. He shares how leaving his hometown - and later, his comfort zone - helped him find his voice in every room.
We covered:
Breaking free from the “stay quiet” script of his upbringing — and discovering the power of self-expression
Why Toastmasters feels like walking into a bookstore — everyone is a story waiting to be heard
How public speaking sharpens leadership — from boardrooms to job interviews
Cultural cues and communication: why some teams speak up in writing but stay silent in meetings
Why stories stick — and how emotion beats metrics when it comes to influence
Listening as an underrated leadership skill (and how Toastmasters trains that muscle)
Using AI as a copilot — without outsourcing your originality
✨ Practical Takeaways:
Try impromptu speaking (like table topics) to stretch your voice and spontaneity
Journal longhand — it sharpens your thinking, voice, and self-trust
Let AI be your brainstorm partner, not your ghostwriter - keep your voice human
Your life. Your rules. For more freedom, flow, and fun.
Links:🔗 Connect with Tara on LinkedIn🎤 Join us at Impact Toastmasters Geneva🌐 Find a Toastmasters Club near you
 
From redefining ambition and walking away from the climb, to finding your non-negotiables and building a career with joy and presence - this is for anyone standing at a crossroads and craving more freedom, flow, and fun.
🎧 Listen now on all major podcast platforms. Just search Play It by Your Rules or Meggi Rombach and hit follow!
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E25 - PIBYR: How to Manage Spiky Profiles - Neurodivergence as a Competitive Edge

What if the traits we label as “too much” — too intense, too detailed, too sensitive — were actually your team’s biggest untapped advantage?
In this episode of Play It by Your Rules, I sit down with Xenia Matthies — business psychologist, systemic consultant, and founder of NeuroSynergy® — to explore how neurodivergence can become a competitive edge in leadership and team design.
We dive into:
The many shades of neurodivergence - and why our brain (and nervous system) work differently.
“Spiky profiles”: what they are, how they show up, and why they can be a superpower for teams.
Co-regulation as the next frontier of leadership - tuning into energy, creating safety, and leading with presence.
Moving from awareness to action - building workplaces where everyone can thrive.
The four pillars of neuroinclusion - at the individual, team, and leadership level: self-awareness, co-regulation, clarity, and structural support.
Practical tools like cognitive team mapping and team playbooks - turning inclusion into daily practice.
✨ Practical takeaways you can try todayXenia’s 4 micro-rules for everyday neuroinclusion (or simply good management):1️⃣ Ask instead of assume.2️⃣ Share instead of expecting.3️⃣ Observe before you interpret.4️⃣ Together - rather than against each other.
Because the future of leadership isn’t just about emotional intelligence - it’s about neuro-intelligence.
🎧 This episode runs a bit longer to give space for a deeper dive into concepts such as co-regulation - what it is, how it works, and why it might just be the next leadership frontier. Tune in and see how these insights could reshape the way you lead, live, and collaborate.
 
🔗 Explore Xenia’s work - mostly in German:🌐 Website: www.xeniamatthies.com
🎥 Online Keynotes:
Führung braucht Klarheit (Online recording – paid): Watch here
Abenteuer Neurodivergenz – Mein Survival-Kit für ein selbstbestimmtes Leben (Free): Watch here
📚 Books:
Playbook Neuroinklusion — practical guide to neuroinclusion: Read here
Manifestieren aus dem Nervensystem: Amazon link
Mein Kind hat ADHS – und jetzt?: Amazon link
🎧 NeuroLeadership Podcast:www.xeniamatthies.com/podcasts/neuroleadership

E24 - PIBYR: Forget the Ladder: Why Midlife Is the Ultimate Growth Program

What if midlife isn’t a crisis — but the ultimate leadership accelerator?
In this episode of Play It by Your Rules, I sit down with Aneace Haddad — global nomad, tech-entrepreneur-turned-coach, and author of Soaring Beyond Midlife — to explore why your 40s, 50s, and 60s might just be your most powerful chapter yet.
We dive into:🔹 Why AI is a midlife advantage — and how experience + AI = rocket fuel.🔹 The radical reframe: 50 is the midpoint, not the end — with two-thirds of your career still ahead.🔹 Legacy as presence — creating moments now that echo for decades.🔹 Why answers are cheap, but questions are priceless in the age of AI.🔹 The neuroscience of midlife: slowing in some areas, but gaining a new superpower — comfort with paradox.
✨ Practical takeaways you can try today:1️⃣ Name one identity you’re ready to release — and notice what expands when you do.2️⃣ Swap “having the answers” for asking better questions.3️⃣ Try the 100-Year Prompt: journal for 5 minutes on who you are at 100 — then choose one tiny step your future self would be proud of today.
This episode is for anyone in midlife — or approaching it — who’s felt doubt creeping in. Too late, too slow, too stuck. It’s here to flip that script and remind you: midlife can be your most expansive chapter yet.
🔗 Explore Aneace’s work:💻 aneace.com📖 Soaring Beyond Midlife: The Surprisingly Natural Emergence of Leadership Superpowers in Life's Second Half → Get the book
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E23 - PIBYR: How to Remember Who You Were - Before the “Shoulds” Took Over

What if the real key to success isn’t doing more - but remembering who you were before the world told you who to be?
In this episode of Play It by Your Rules, I sit down with Shivangi Walke - leadership coach, entrepreneur, speaker, and author of Wander Woman. From corporate boardrooms to founding global mentoring platforms, Shivangi’s mission is clear: help people - including high-skilled immigrant women - reclaim their voice and own their unique strengths.
We dive into:🔹 The “unholy trinity” of biases immigrant women face - and how to navigate them.🔹 Why job security is an illusion (and what that means for reinvention).🔹 The biggest lie we’re told about our potential - and how to unlearn it.🔹 What reinvention really looks like in midlife (and why it’s never too late).🔹 Practical steps to reconnect with your true self - and bring that to your work and life.
If you’ve ever felt boxed in by the “shoulds” - too quiet, too bold, too young, too old - this conversation is your reminder: there’s no one right way to live or lead.
🔗 Explore Shivangi’s work:🌍 Thrive with Mentoring💻 shivangiwalke.com📖 Wander Woman
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From redefining ambition and walking away from the climb, to finding your non-negotiables and building a career with joy and presence - this is for anyone standing at a crossroads and craving more freedom, flow, and fun.
🎧 Listen now on all major podcast platforms. Just search Play It by Your Rules or Meggi Rombach and hit follow!
💬 Enjoyed this episode? Leave a review or share it with someone who needs to hear it. Your support helps spread the vibe.
👉 Want more?Follow me on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/mrombachCheck out my website: mindset-mastery.ch

E22 - PIBYR: Relaunch: Play It by Your Rules – The Story Behind the Name

We’re LIVE under a bold new name: Play It by Your Rules! 🚀(formerly Leadership Insights)
In this special teaser episode, I flip the mic to my voice coach, Helen von Dadelszen, who interviews me about the story behind the podcast rebrand.
We talk about:✨ Why now’s the moment for a rebrand🧭 How I’m embracing mindful rebellion🎙️ What kind of guests and energy you can expect⚡ And why now’s the time to question the “rules” we’ve been handed
From redefining ambition and walking away from the climb, to finding your non-negotiables and building a career with joy and presence — this is for anyone standing at a crossroads and craving more freedom, flow, and fun.
🎧 Listen now on all major podcast platforms. Just search Play It by Your Rules or Meggi Rombach and hit follow!
💥 Curious? Inspired? Ready to claim your space and write your own rules? Let me know what landed in the comments.
💬 Enjoyed this episode?  Leave a review or share it with someone who needs to hear it. Your support helps spread the vibe. 
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Check out my website: https://mindset-mastery.ch